How the site looks at the first glance
The dating site has a nicely organized main page with a classical man & woman layout and a visually pleasant, elegant design. It presents the most attractive female members’ photos and basic information right on the main page, as a form of self-advertisement. Like many other dating sites of this kind, it contains self-promoting promises of perfect security and effectiveness.
Signing up process is free. It isn’t too long but many questions have to be answered and many fields should be filled. It takes up to 10 minutes to complete all basic procedures including email verification. The photo and all additional information can be added later.
Female profiles quality
Despite the age frame which is between 24 and 40 approximately, the majority of female members have bright and glamorous professional photos. Makeup and Photoshop are presented on those photos too. In general, all profiles are attractive but it’s very obvious that women are coming from the agencies.
Free trial is available, later a client should regularly pay a monthly subscription to be able to purchase the credits.
Safety level is average and above average. Customer support is very active and reacts urgently.
The site says it is focused on 40+ dating but it seems to be a promotional trick. There is a big diversity of ages in fact. If to talk about female members, 30+ women is a main audience of the site.
Pros and cons
Messaging, chatting, video chatting are available. Such classical services as ice-breakers and gifts delivery, are also available and charges a customer in virtual credits that he has to purchase regularly.
Among the pros, it’s important to mention success stories indeed happen there and it’s technically easy to meet any Ukrainian lady one is corresponding with.
Among the cons, it should be mentioned that all services are paid and nothing is free on this dating site.
Phone app version
Charmerly app is available for Android which makes the process of corresponding and chatting even easier.
“Charmerly is just fine for me, not worse than other dating platforms, even a bit cheaper. I am really thinking to continue my membership literally for a lifetime. I doubt I will ever want to get married again so online flirting and offline hookups is just my thing. I met really cool Ukrainian women via Charmerly not just stupid chicks, so I find it qualitative enough. You just have to use your experience and be a pro in getting through the scammers, bots and ads. But if you have that extra time for being selective and careful, you will succeed. I recommend Charmerly for sure.” (Daniel, 32, LA)
“I had issues with Charmerly, but customer support did help and I managed to find a few nice girls for fun, after some technical and organizational struggle. I cannot say Charmerly works without flaws and bugs. Oh, there are many. But at least a half of profiles are real people and it’s worthy of trying. Many dating sites and apps completely consist of fakes and/or ask to pay too high. This one is more reasonable.” (Thomas, 44, Denver)
“Some of my friends are using Charmerly for hook-ups in Ukraine and Russia, but I wanted a wife from the beginning. It was a big relief for me to discover wonderful women here so different from my local ones. I even started to study Russian, so much enchanted I was. Some of the girls seemed too materialistic to go on with them, or way too easy to get. But eventually, I have found my Miss Right and we met in her city. I do not regret any single penny I spent because it was amazing. I forgot how to date but now I know again! I am happy to tell you that we are now proceeding with the documents and I am going to take her to Arizona. Thanks Charmerly, it was c harming indeed. I used the application too and it helped to stay in touch. I really think such helpful platforms are rare now and we American men should appreciate these opportunities.” (John, 51, Phoenix)
Let’s start from the fact that Charmerly.com has the same owner as AnastasiaDate.com: a company Terrasocial Ltd. Both sites aren’t new but they can be called famous and successful. For a comparison, one is receiving up to 1000 letters a day on Charmerly, up to 2000 on AnastasiaDate, and only up to 100 on other popular dating sites. Surprisingly enough, the absolute majority of those profiles come from real female members, even if the messages themselves are automatized.
The title Charmerly is chosen basing on the well-known statement that Slavic women are, first of all, very charming. In this regard, Charmerly made a choice similar to CuteOnly that also specializes on Russian and Ukrainian women.
The similarity ends here. Charmerly is far more expensive but at the same time, has more success stories at its disposal.
At the same time, like on every paid site and especially PPL site, no one guarantees there will be no scammers. Girls can be real and they prove that with video chats, but some of them are rather golddiggers and not seriously-minded brides.
Taking into account the current political situation in Ukraine and changing mentality, there are many chances girls will be serious in their intentions. But it’s always crucial to ask them recommended controlling questions. They are mainly meant to clear it up whether the girl is comfortable in her recent environment or not:
- Are you happy with the governmental system you are living in? Do you like your political personalities?
- Are you getting a good salary, sufficient for living?
- Do you and your parents own property?
- Do you have very close friends who you would miss after moving abroad?
- Do you have siblings and relatives you are very close to?
Ironically, scammers may lie about their feelings towards you but not about their life facts since they believe they’re safe enough tricking you on a distance. By their answers, you will understand how strongly they are attached to their country and whether they consider to ever move.
Many of normal men just had a negative experience online, especially with international / distanced dating. Scammers, golddiggers, and catfishing have changed their attitude forever. It’s not right to shower the non-guilty woman with your past disappointments, that’s for sure. But it feels like a gained reflex of self-protection and… trust issues.
Luckily, every suspicious profile can be easily reported on Charmerly, and it’s even encouraged. Its developers made a perfect move when they took these ugly situations into consideration and eventually created a safe virtual space for every person who seeks new friendships, fun, or serious relationships. They made sure one is not going to be hurt on that important personal moment. In this regard, Charmerly is always honest in its intentions and diligent in its quality, it deserves an appreciation.
There are realistic disadvantages that should be mentioned as well. It’s not always a problem to pay for dating. there are quite expensive dating apps that are still in the top of leaders. People don’t mind to pay, if it’s just once a month and the amount or the service are very clear. For this reason, many choose to pay for 3 months at once and not to be bothered anymore. But it’s extremely annoying to make multiple little payments every now and then, sometimes every day or several times a day! Who would enjoy disrespecting and misusing their credit card that much.
Dating is dating, many people perceive this word seriously. Dating differs from hookups, so the users expect something bigger. However, judging from the behaviour of webcam girls and female users of this app, it’s rather a sex-oriented app than a relationship-oriented app. Only those ones who video chat less and show commitment to meet in reality, are worthy of your attention.
In general, we would rate Charmerly as 4 stars from 5 in case you follow all security measures while using it. There are so many dating apps nowadays so new ones should always suggest something new that would keep them among leaders. The huge competition doesn’t leave any chance. Charmerly became successful because its owners knew what to do and what to offer.